One Down Two To Go

In September last year after the end of a relationship .I started looking for a new lover. I found three likely candidates who seemed interesting. The first guy was from out of town but worked here 2 days a week. He seemed very full of himself when we spoke on the phone and he insisted on phoning me every time he sent me pics wanting my thoughts on them. He was in his 40's but 20 years ago he worked as a male model. On his next day here we met for lunch. He was very self obsessed, all he talked about was what an amazing lover he was. How he had women phoning their friends to come fuck him after he'd fucked them because he was that good. The only Bain of his life was his wife who had turned lesbian.He was also very obsessed with his 9 inch cock.   I'm sat there thinking if you already have all these women why are you interested in me.After lunch we went up to his hotel suite. Very fancy suite with a hot tub. We hung out in the hot tub drinking then moved to the bed. That's when the day started to quickly head south. He was just the worst lover I've ever encountered. He was terrible at oral and not much better at fucking. After an hour I still haven't had one orgasm and I'm getting sore. I lose my cool and tell him to get the fuck off me I'll do it myself. Takes me a few minutes to give myself an orgasm . I'm thinking take note buddy that's how to do it. It's no wonder wifey has turned lesbian. I get up and start getting dressed and he says I take there won't be a second meeting. I say no. Later that day I feel a little guilty about being so mean. So, I end up setting him up with one of my girlfriends. I'm sure that's what happens with his other referrals too. The following week she's really mad at me for setting her up with a jerk. So, onto number two.

Want To Go For A Helicopter Ride

I'm always eager to learn new things. For the past couple of months I've been practicing a form of cock torture called the Helicopter. I think I've got my technique close to perfect now. I had quite a number of volunteers willing to offer their cocks for me to practice on. So, the technique involves wrapping the cock and balls very tight with thin rope making sure not to overlap. Then when you get to the end of the cock you pull the rope hard to unravel. The cock spins around faster and faster until it's flung free. Hence the name Helicopter ( or I've also heard it called the Whirlybird).

The Oral Artist

A few years ago I met a man who became my lover. He was an exceptionally good lover , very orally talented.
During our sexual discussions , I discovered he had always wanted to have a submissive experience. I wasn't sure how having my lover also as my submissive would fair in   terms of my sexual fulfillment. In the past I'd always kept things separate. ( An arrangement I have now returned too) .But, I decided to give it a try.
Our first D/s experience did not go as planned. I was used to playing with more experienced players and I was far too rough for a first time player even though I thought it was really mild. I could tell he didn't really enjoy it and so I put on my thinking cap and the next time I went for more erotic sensory play.  That he really enjoyed judging by the river of pre cum running from his cock , and so for the next couple of years he became my lover/ sub the Oral Artist.

db

Fifteen years ago I met db. We were browsing in a bookstore and I was reading the back of a book called Venus in Furs. He asked if I'd read it , I said I hadn't. I already knew the book was about a d/s relationship and I could tell by his face he was familiar with the book. I suggested he might like to buy me some tea and he could tell me about the book. He did and so began our journey. Over time I will write more about our meetings and our developing relationship. We no longer live in close proximity to each other but we do converse often 

Relationships

Over the next few weeks I will on occasion introduce you to important relationships in my life. Some from the past , others are my current relationships.

Swinging Vs Poly

A few weeks ago I went with a girlfriend to a talk on the difference between swinging and Poly relationships. I hadn't given it much thought prior to that. I don't think I'm a swinger I don't get much gratification from having mindless sex with strangers. Since, I also don't believe in monogamy I think that puts me more into the poly group. I prefer to have sex with regular partners, to have a loving relationship without the restrictions that monogamy imposes. I also have varying sexual needs which are impossible for one person to fulfill. I like my lover to be an equal, someone strong and passionate. But, I also have a need to be dominant and play with submissives. I also love ladies and I love how soft and sensual their bodies are. So , I figure I need at least three sexual partners.